Integrate Yourself!
I am both nice and brutal. How? Because I've INTEGRATED. If you're not sure what that means, then let me tell you a little story that might explain it well. In my childhood, I was the class comic. I was the mischievous one. I was the one smiling like an idiot when I did something really silly and got into trouble. I was the nice guy, and therefore I was also the one who was naive. I let dark-hearted individuals take advantage of my good heart. I believed their words, and I paid the price. Slowly but surely, my own heart grew colder and after years of having to fight with disingenuous people in all arenas of my life, I turned stone cold. The fatal blow came when I realized that the very people who were supposed to provide me my safe space were in fact no different at all from the ones I'd been fighting with. That was when I went full tyrant and went on a vicious rampage of REVENGE! The nice guy faded away into the background. For years, he was neglected and he watched as the...
